Human beings are complex creatures who, on their best day are full of contradictions, concerns, and fears. Why is this? It’s simple: humans are ALWAYS in flux. Humans are never at a single state for too long. The more we learn, the more we change, hopefully for the better.
Guess what? Your spouse is a human. He/She is evolving this very moment. Your mate is so complex that you’ll NEVER figure him/her out completely. And that makes sense since your mate will never figure him/herself out completely.
000So what does all this mean?
It means you need to be nice. Cut your spouse some slack. Give your mate a break. Don’t be judgmental and quick to hand down an edict regarding your spouse’s motives or decisions. You, like your spouse, are in transition. You’re becoming. You’re in progress. Settle down, be patient, and love your mate instead of passing judgment.